Sunday, October 16, 2016

When you feel like someone is taking advantage of you

So I have always been a person who loves to serve others. I am pretty involved in multiple ministries in church and I always try to help others whenever it is possible. So, me being a "yes man", I feel like there is always an oppritunity to take advantage of my kindness. For me, it is really hard to say no when it comes to serving. I really love it, but when you really want to say no, this can be a bug problem. I usually try not to complain about these things, but latley, I have taken more notice of this. How do you get to this point and be strong about it? I thought I had this figured out in me, I'm almost 37 years old, you would think that after things I've done before, I would figure it out. This just tends to happen to me. I think I need to go back and figure out how to nip this in the bud before it causes a bigger problem for me. This postis mostly a rant from me as I am a little miffed at something and needed to get it out. If anyone does have a suggestion for me, let me know. Maybe I'm not as confident as I thoughtor something like that! Thoughts?

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